No no no...and no

Baby Oliver, mama and papa went back to baby Oliver's 嫲嫲 house for dinner just now. Here below is the conversation between mama and 嫲嫲 :

嫲嫲 : ..i bought 2 packets of biscuits for 乐乐 to eat, the bakery shop said is very good for kids to eat one, later remember to bring back hor!
mama : orh.. (quietly take up the packet of biscuit and check the ingredients..eggs, sugar, honey, potato starch, coconut milk....)

嫲嫲 : ..give something to keep him entertain lah, give him eat the apple!
mama : ..ehhh, no...no need, he already eaten 1 apple just now
嫲嫲 : ..aiyah don't worry lah, he won't be able to bite or swallow it coz the apple is very hard one.
mama : ..eh, no..really nooo。。。 need..!

嫲嫲 : ..take the potato from the ABC soup that i boiled and feed 乐乐
mama : ..oh, no need, coz he already had porridge just now at babysitter there
嫲嫲 : ..give him eat somemore lah, potato is very good one and i have boiled the soup since morning leh, very tasty one!
mama : ..hmm...no and can not, coz you have added salt in the soup and we haven't let 乐乐 eat any food with salt or sugar yet.
嫲嫲 : ..i didn't put salt lah, i only put soy sauce mah...and baby must eat food with salt or sugar one, if not the food is so tasteless, how can he eat?!
mama : ..errr...really no need...!!

嫲嫲 : ..then peel some roasted duck meat for 乐乐 to eat, is tasty and good
mama : ..err....(yes again)...no need, is ok, he is already full
嫲嫲 : ..aiyah, duck meat very good leh, u must let him eat some meat mah, he must learn how to chew food what...
mama : ...noooop, i did give him eat meat, but not roasted one yet...so, no...!!!
嫲嫲 : ........

嫲嫲 used her fingers (she just done praying and did not wash her hands) to take few rice from the rice bowl and : ..乐乐 come, eat this rice...
mama : ..ohhh no no no...no rice yet!!!

.....finished dinner, time to go home, at the door step;

嫲嫲 : ..eh, wait, take some fruits and the 2 packets of biscuits back home
mama : ..ahhh ya...1 packet is enough
嫲嫲 : ..aiyah, take all lah, can let 乐乐 slowly eat mah
mama : ...no no no, 1 packet is enough, the other packet can keep for 乐乐 cousin sister
嫲嫲 : ..ok lah ok lah...

In mama's heart was thinking : "my dear mum-in-law, i am so sorry that i have to reject whatever you want to give baby Oliver to eat. I did give meat for baby Oliver to eat but not duck meat or any roasted meat yet; add sugar and salt in the food? yes, but not now; other unhealthy food, yes, also not now....not until when he is 1 year's old or older.."

Is this mama being too paranoid or just over reacted? A friend of mama ever said that nowadays those daughter-in-laws who read a lots on how to take care of baby tends to have more conflicts with their mother-in-law....somehow is true, but ultimately all mothers just want to ensure that their babies 'eat right' and grow up healthy, right?!

"Mama...can i eat the sweets or chocolates??"

"No??..okie, i eat my pacifier then..."